Relationships are stressful
February 17, 2009
Who knew after more than a year of being together, it would all become as stressful as this.
I know I still love him, but that feeling I have that he is cheating on me isn’t fading away. He didn’t even get me anything this valentine’s day because he had to leave for something he refuses to tell me about. Sigh
While researching on relationships and cheating, I found an online quiz called “Is He Cheating Quiz” from Oprah.com. Click the link to take the test, it may end up getting you depressed :/
We aren’t married yet, but I did answer yes to number 12. He’s always out with nameless people.
Your total score is -7.
You’re on shaky ground; you should be aware. Begin to cultivate a home culture of kindness, calmness, and appreciation. Slow it down. Make each other the focus. Elminate the distractions that dilute intimacy. Have time for you so you can reenergize and develop your refreshed marital plan.One caveat—regardless of your score, pay more attention to your risk factor if you checked ‘Strongly Agree’ to both questions 12 (I feel my husband has spent more time away from home over the last month or more) and 14 (I feel my husband has had diminished sexual activity with me over the last two months or more). These are strong indicators of a marriage in trouble.
